Ever wonder what is going on in your guys head when you two fight? Wish you could get a glimpse into his mind? Here are 10 things he may be thinking every time you start arguing:

1. “How’s the angry make-up sex going to be?”

2. “I need a new girlfriend, one who doesn’t fight with me.”

3. “What fight? I tune it out.”

4. “I am really mad right now. But I will apologize tomorrow. (lol)

5. “Am I understanding what she’s asking for?”

6. “How can I get to the real problem? Because what we’re fighting about usually isn’t what the real problem is. Also, if the fight starts with ‘You always…,’ that’s a big problem! Always is a problem word.”

7. “I get really negative about our relationship. Even if it’s a small fight, I think it’s the end of the relationship. I don’t like to fight. It freaks me out.”

8. “I think of ways to undermine her argument so that I win.”

9. “How do I get out of this? Because no one wants to admit they were wrong.”

10. “I’m not going to apologize. I’m not big on apologies. I like when she stands up for what she thinks and keeps things logical. I like to argue it out so we both get our points heard. And after we’ve made our points, why apologize?”

Happy Dating!

In love, peace and happiness

Bianca Salvant