Ever wonder what is going on in your guys head when you two fight? Wish you could get a glimpse into his mind? Here are 10 things he may be thinking every time you start arguing:
1. “How’s the angry make-up sex going to be?”
2. “I need a new girlfriend, one who doesn’t fight with me.”
3. “What fight? I tune it out.”
4. “I am really mad right now. But I will apologize tomorrow. (lol)
5. “Am I understanding what she’s asking for?”
6. “How can I get to the real problem? Because what we’re fighting about usually isn’t what the real problem is. Also, if the fight starts with ‘You always…,’ that’s a big problem! Always is a problem word.”
7. “I get really negative about our relationship. Even if it’s a small fight, I think it’s the end of the relationship. I don’t like to fight. It freaks me out.”
8. “I think of ways to undermine her argument so that I win.”
9. “How do I get out of this? Because no one wants to admit they were wrong.”
10. “I’m not going to apologize. I’m not big on apologies. I like when she stands up for what she thinks and keeps things logical. I like to argue it out so we both get our points heard. And after we’ve made our points, why apologize?”
Happy Dating!
In love, peace and happiness
Bianca Salvant
What a great article. Thanks for taking the time to write it.
As a guy, this is mostly bullshit.