She’s Just Not That Into You: How To Tell if a Girl is Interested or if You Should Back Off

Guys, Have you ever tried to get romantically involved with a girl but you just can’t seem to get to that point with her?

You’ve tried everything you can but you she just won’t budge? Well, maybe…she’s just not that into you.

Most of us females have heard of, read the book, and have even seen the movie, He’s Just Not That Into You which came out in 2009. It gave detailed descriptions on how to tell when a guy just isn’t into you, but what about the fellas?

How can you tell when a girl just isn’t interested?

Clue #1: She Always Seems to be busy

You text, you call, you make plans but it seems to be that her busy schedule is keeping her from seeing you. Honestly, people make time for what they want to make time for and if she isn’t making time for you then I hate to break it to you sir, but she’s not interested.

Clue #2: The only time she wants to hang out is when YOU spend money

If you do manage to get her out and you seem to be the one who’s always footing the bill, she just might be using you for your benjamins.

This is typically when you only hear from her when she’s hungry, wants to see a new movie that just came out, or she is only interested in something that’s going to decrease the size of your bank account.

She doesn’t like your company, she just likes the money that comes along with it.

Clue #3: She’s not very talkative

If you haven’t noticed, most women generally like to talk, especially when they’re romantically interested in someone because we want to get to know you and we want you to get to know us. If we’re not talking, then we don’t care.

Silence isn’t always golden.

Clue #4: She only calls you to talk about her “other guy” problems

First of all, if you didn’t get the hint from this clue, then you need to step back, evaluate how badly you want to be in a relationship and maybe calm down a bit.

Women handle their emotions differently than men and sometimes we want a male perspective when guys just confuse the heck out of us. This is where you come in, we call you and cry and complain about the current “him” in our lives who just “doesn’t get it”.

What you have to understand is that you’re not the “him” we’re talking about and if you were, we wouldn’t be calling you to talk about it.

Clue #5: She keeps you in the friend zone

Contrary to popular belief, men and women can be friends without the attractions or emotional attachments, but if you have those feelings and you hear “you’re such a great friend” or anything of that nature, then take those emotions and toss them in the recycling bin because, sir, she’s just not that into you.

So if you’re into a girl and she exhibits any of these 5 clues (or if she just flat out tells you she doesn’t like you) then go ahead: call it quits, and explore those other fish in the sea. You know, the ones that are interested.